Asexuality

I have no experience in this sort of thing, really. I’m not all that understanding of typical social cues, so I wouldn’t know what is taken as just friendliness or flirting.

And as always, it would depend on the person, because some people project and take even the slightest interest as romantic regardless of context.

I think just telling them that they seem pretty fun to be around and have enjoyable company. Maybe ask after them, like how their day was, if they had a nice weekend. Maybe engage in conversation (especially on topics you both enjoy). I think doing all of this could form a bond, depending on how receptive they are.

If you feel the need to specify it’s just friendship, no reason not to just say it out right. Perhaps not immediately, though, because some people are a bit put off by “I want to be your friend”, although sometimes that actually works, too. Again, it’s the individual.

I don’t know how to make friends How have all of you who have experienced squishes gone about them? This would be interesting to share your experiences about, and may help, too.

(Also, the term usually used for an aromantic is “aro”, ace would be the asexual bit.)

-Griff