Anonymous asked: I consider myself ace since i'm not sexually attracted to anyone but (and this has been bothering me for a bit) I do get turned on by voices (particularly when singing). it's not directed towards the person with that voice, the sound is just really pleasing and arouses me. although, sometimes I wouldn't be bothered by doing sexual acts with the person who possesses that voice. am I still ace?

Since you say that it’s only to the sound and not the actual person I think you’d still be ace. Arousal and attraction are not the same.

This question has come up before, if I remember correctly, and I think the confusion might come from the fact that noises are a less physical form of stimulus than people would expect to cause arousal.

Having sex is irrelevant to whether you are asexual or not.

It’s up to you if you still feel comfortable as identifying either way, though.

-Griff

@9 months ago with 3 notes
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