Anonymous asked: Hi, I know asexuals have romantic orientations and I'm not sure If I'm Hetroromatic or Aromatic because I find guys attractive... yet I don't want to date them. In fact I don't think I want to date at all. So what does that make me?

Since I don’t know exactly what you mean by “attractive” there are several possibilities.

If you know for sure that the attraction you feel is romantic in nature, you could be lithromantic. Lithromantics experience romantic attraction, but do not desire reciprocation. There’s a lithromantic tumblr here: lithromantic.tumblr.com

Now if you just mean that you appreciate their appearance, that would be aesthetic attraction. And if you mean you want to cuddle/kiss/etc, that would be sensual attraction.

If you don’t think the lithro identity is something you fit it may be that you simply don’t desire to date. Since behavior is not always attraction and everything. You could also go with gray (a)romantic, since the attraction just isn’t something strong enough to pursue.

Just up to you.

-Griff

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