Have you seen the Sexuality Radar Chart? If so, can you explain to me what Primary/Seconday attractions, romance, desire means? Thanks!
Primary Sexual - wanting to do something sexual because it’ll feel good.
Secondary Sexual - wanting to do something sexual to express love or to enjoy the other person’s sexual pleasure.
Primary Romantic - wanting to be in a romantic relationship with someone in particular, “falling in love”.
Secondary Romantic - wanting to be in a romantic relationship in general, being open to options should someone pursue you romantically.
It’s explained here I simply copied and pasted it :3
-Nick