Anonymous said: This is kind of embarrassing, but I'm currently dating the most wonderful girl in the world (I identify as a biromantic asexual), who is aware that I'm asexual and is totally fine with that, but lately, we were talking about things like s&M, and I was wondering, is it possible to still have a nonsexual relationship while er, practicing s&M? Sorry for the weird question and I love this blog ♥

I don’t see why not. I think that, if you and your partner really communicate and talk about it, you can keep it from being sexual if you wish.

I don’t have any experience in it, so I may be wrong, but I don’t see why s&M has to be inherently sexual.

Good luck with everything. c:


@2 years ago with 6 notes
#Anonymous #ask 
  1. subliminaltwist said: There are lots of asexuals who have kinks. Personally, I identify as submissive, and would love to get into the whole BDSM thing. However, I’m also very very nonsexual; it wouldn’t arouse me, it would just be a different (desirable) feeling.
  2. oddpicturesoddpeople said: Yes, yes it is. And a very fun one too, if that’s your thing! (I’m in a similar boat)
  3. arthronpodos said: It totally is, anon! It works very well, from my personal experience.
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