Still Bisexual? Demisexual? Asexual? Just a good girlfriend? Help?!
I’m a 15 year old female in a very happy relationship with the most amazing guy on earth. I’ve been openly bisexual for almost two years now. I really didn’t (don’t) care about the gender of the person; if they’re a genuine person I’ll begin to like them and fall in love with them.
However, I don’t really have strong sexual feelings for the person. I will engage in sexual activities with the person I’m with if I really like them and think it is what they want. I am never the first to want sexual things.
I was with a group of friends at a football game and they were awing at a football player one of them have a crush on saying how sexy he was and stuff. They knew I didn’t like said guy, so they asked me who I thought was sexy… I couldn’t think of anyone besides my boyfriend. They asked if I had ever thought anyone was sexy and the only other person I could think of was me having a crush on my best female friend in middle school—-one of the few people I’ve ever been truely SEXUALLY attracted to.
I can tell when a person is “attractive” but I am not attracted to them. I only start to be attracted to someone after I’ve known them a while and start to get to know them well. I am just genuinely not attracted to people—-any person at all. Besides my boyfriend who is one of the closest people I have in my life. When I’m with him I become sexually turned on and he is the ONLY person that this happens with. I sometimes get wet before he’s erect >.<
Why am I not normal though? I’m not attracted to anyone besides the person I’m closest with? Am I just a good girlfriend or is it something more? I need help figuring this out before my brain explodes, so please, if anyone has similar feelings and reads this could you please help me?
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@1 year ago with 5 notes#lgbtq #asexual #demisexual #bisexual
