May 2012
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Anonymous asked: Is it just me or do some links on the attraction page don't work?
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TINYCHAT TONIGHT!
PAAARTY IN TINYCHAT!!!! http://tinychat.com/serialacenick
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I have revamped a few of the side links and added one in.
The former Sexual Attraction page now covers all types of attraction and any other related terminology. (x)
There is now a “Am I Still Asexual If…” page to try and help nip those questions in the bud. (x)
(Some of these may repeat information stated in the other FAQs, but it doesn’t hurt.)
Please, please feel...
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Away with the labels!
swankivy:
I’mma explain something very simple to all you people who keep telling asexuals to stop labeling themselves.
Labels help us have conversations. Labels help us acknowledge experiences. Labels exist because when things exist, they have a name.
When you tell us repeatedly that we shouldn’t name how we feel, you’re telling us you’d rather we have no words to discuss our lives. No...
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Anonymous asked: I'm asexual. I don't feel sexual attraction, but I do feel aesthetic and romantic attraction, and sometimes sensual attraction. I know people who understand asexuality dislike this stereotype - but I was also sexually abused when I was 9. This makes me wonder if I truly am the 1% of the population that is asexual, or not. My university counsellor told me that I should seek therapy if I...
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Anonymous asked: I feel as though a lot of the asks you get are the same things over and over -- things that are already written in the FAQ... I don't mean to be rude, but seeing the same questions and the same answers over and over again bugs me.
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Anonymous asked: so i identify as ace. i don't think that i have really felt sexual attraction toward anyone,and if i have it was such a small attraction that it didnt amount to anything. however, i do have romantic feelings for a friend who i know has had sexual feelings for me in the past. though i dont have sexual feelings for him, i think that given the opportunity i could possibly have sex with him. is...
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Anonymous asked: So like. I'm asexual and aromantic, absolutely no sexual attraction anywhere here, but I feel kinda pan-something in that there's some kind of attraction for every gender. Not attraction like, "oh I want to kiss/fuck/cuddle with that" though. Just like a "Oh, I noticed they're nice to look at, maybe I'll draw them some time." kinda thing. Is there a word for...
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Anonymous asked: Might be a silly question but, if one experiences sexual attraction but has no desire to act on it, is that considered asexual? I feel sexual attraction but I don't actually want to have sex with anyone, if that makes sense?
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Anonymous asked: Hi, I just wanted some advice or/and help on how to describe my sexuality. I'm never sexually attracted people and I never see them in a sexual way, I also never have desire to sleep with anyone but on the other hand I do have sex with people, sometimes just for a bit of fun or if I'm in a genuine relationship but I can take it or leave it. Most of the time I know I'm Asexual but I...
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Anonymous asked: What exactly is the difference between a queerplatonic relationship and a friendship? The intensity? To me, it sounds like a really odd word to describe a very strong friendship.
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Anonymous asked: it's okay for an ace to get horny/have kinks, right? because i think i have fetishes and such, but i could never even imagine having sex with a real person. idk i just want to make sure it's not that weird
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Anonymous asked: how would you define sexual attraction?
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Anonymous asked: I can fall in love with people (rare), and after that point I tend to mirror their urges. Uncommon?
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Anonymous asked: I wank a good lot, to nothing. I am in a loving relationship but have not desire for sex, never want to be kissed and would love it if I could have kids via c-section without having sex. Taking that into account, I am also a huge fan of fictional character pronz but real stuff, stuff with me in it and a lot of other little things just make me cringe. And as for that loving relationship, I like it...
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Anonymous asked: Is there like a friend attraction? Like you meet someone and you have this strong desire to be their friend? Or a queer platonic attraction?
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Tinychaaat!
Let’s have a chat everyone! http://tinychat.com/serialacenick#
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Anonymous asked: The Anon you recently answered with "Sexuality is Fluid" noted that the lack of sex drive and attraction happened very suddenly, rapidly, and dramatically. Sexuality IS somewhat fluid, but a swift, dramatic change like that can also be a result of medical factors and so they might want to see a doctor.
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Anonymous asked: Sometimes I worry I don't have enough love for others in my heart, just cause i identify as aromantic asexual.
