August 2012
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manipulativeinstincts asked: I'd just like to say, I'm very happy I found your blog :) ...oh, and I wasn't aware that's how how flag looks. *points to your icon*
Aug 26th
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Anonymous asked: re heteroromantic=straight. That whole debate makes me so uncomfortable, mostly b/c, from my experiences, 90% of the time the people calling heteroromantic aces "straight" are doing so to try and force the label onto them, or force them away from using a label they don't agree with (ex: the whole debate about whether heteroromantic aces count as "queer" or not). (Emphasis...
Aug 26th
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Anonymous asked: Do I count as straight? I'm a heteroromantic asexual, but as I understand it, straight supposedly only accounts for heterosexuals. I know it's a silly question, but it just popped into my head and I thought I'd ask.
Aug 26th
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Anonymous asked: What's the difference between being sex-repulsed and having erotophobia?
Aug 26th
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Hey, just wanted to mention that it looks like six years ago Fox news had a perfectly civil discussion on asexuality. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lmXXgRvotGM) This “Red Eye” is something of a satire show that runs late at night.  Doesn’t make it any less offensive and terrible, especially because it shows on the Fox “News” website and with their logo. But...
Aug 22nd
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SIGN THE PETITION: Hey Fox News! Instead of... →
pearlsfromthewest: In case you’ve missed the original things on this: Original video: http://video.foxnews.com/v/1797282177001/asexuality-a-sexual-orientation/ Solid response from the community: http://nextstepcake.tumblr.com/post/29956029857/oh-dear-fox-news-has-found-out-about-us-tw Please please send this far and wide and repost it — every time someone signs the petition, the show’s host...
Aug 22nd
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Anonymous asked: Fox News had a discussion about asexuality on one of their shows. Instead of having asexual identified people on the show, they chose to make fun of asexual spectrum people. There is a petition going on at Change. org called "Instead of talking about asexual people, talk to us!" and I was wondering if the followers of this blog could sign it and spread the word because we need as many...
Aug 22nd
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(In case you forget, this was my last message I sent you: I’m sure I’m aromantic, but I don’t think I understand it enough at all so I’m confused. I’ve only ever ever felt lust and friendship for someone. I mean, romantic attraction is still just an ATTRACTION, right? So like, I watch romance movies and I wish I could have a romantic relationship with someone, and I...
Aug 21st
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(TW: invalidation, sexism, ignorance, Fox News... →
nextstepcake: It’s about what I would expect from then. Added TW. They managed a lot for such a short clip. I was just scrolling down from a post that made me smile and I don’t think I have ever felt a smile disappear so quickly when I read that. If you are sensitive to this, I wouldn’t recommend watching, you guys, just whip out your bingo cards and black it out, basically. Not...
Aug 21st
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Global media coverage of Understanding Asexuality
ace-muslim: With the publication of Anthony Bogaert’s Understanding Asexuality, asexuality is getting some media attention. The following articles have appeared on news websites around the world: Asexuals: A growing population? (Medical Daily) 70 million in the world are asexuals (China Daily) Not interested in sex? You are not alone (Deccan Chronicle) One percent of the world’s people are...
Aug 21st
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Anonymous asked: I consider myself ace since i'm not sexually attracted to anyone but (and this has been bothering me for a bit) I do get turned on by voices (particularly when singing). it's not directed towards the person with that voice, the sound is just really pleasing and arouses me. although, sometimes I wouldn't be bothered by doing sexual acts with the person who possesses that voice. am I...
Aug 19th
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gaiabriggs asked: do you have that masterpost in a bigger format? I can barely read it, thanks
Aug 19th
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List of Aromantic Resources
metapianycist: Aromantic-spectrum & QP Resource Blogs on Tumblr http://aromanticaardvark.tumblr.com/ http://aromanticadvice.tumblr.com/ http://aromanticsanonymous.tumblr.com/ http://arosecret.tumblr.com/ http://fictionalaros.tumblr.com/ http://lithromantic.tumblr.com/ http://fyeahqueerplatoniczucchinis.tumblr.com/ http://qpadvice.tumblr.com/ ...
Aug 19th
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Aug 19th
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Aug 8th
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Aug 8th
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genocidertogami asked: I don't know if I'm asexual because I have an attraction to fictional characters (though I've only ever wanted to have sex wih fictional characters, not real people), but I think.. I'm pretty sure the idea of minors having sex triggers me. I don't wanna slap "trigger" on just anything but.. it gives me a tightness in my throat, chest, and stomach, and it's...
Aug 8th
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