August 2012
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manipulativeinstincts asked: I'd just like to say, I'm very happy I found your blog :) ...oh, and I wasn't aware that's how how flag looks. *points to your icon*
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Anonymous asked: re heteroromantic=straight. That whole debate makes me so uncomfortable, mostly b/c, from my experiences, 90% of the time the people calling heteroromantic aces "straight" are doing so to try and force the label onto them, or force them away from using a label they don't agree with (ex: the whole debate about whether heteroromantic aces count as "queer" or not). (Emphasis...
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Anonymous asked: Do I count as straight? I'm a heteroromantic asexual, but as I understand it, straight supposedly only accounts for heterosexuals. I know it's a silly question, but it just popped into my head and I thought I'd ask.
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Anonymous asked: What's the difference between being sex-repulsed and having erotophobia?
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Hey, just wanted to mention that it looks like six years ago Fox news had a perfectly civil discussion on asexuality. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lmXXgRvotGM) This “Red Eye” is something of a satire show that runs late at night.
Doesn’t make it any less offensive and terrible, especially because it shows on the Fox “News” website and with their logo. But...
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SIGN THE PETITION: Hey Fox News! Instead of... →
pearlsfromthewest:
In case you’ve missed the original things on this: Original video: http://video.foxnews.com/v/1797282177001/asexuality-a-sexual-orientation/
Solid response from the community: http://nextstepcake.tumblr.com/post/29956029857/oh-dear-fox-news-has-found-out-about-us-tw
Please please send this far and wide and repost it — every time someone signs the petition, the show’s host...
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Anonymous asked: Fox News had a discussion about asexuality on one of their shows. Instead of having asexual identified people on the show, they chose to make fun of asexual spectrum people. There is a petition going on at Change. org called "Instead of talking about asexual people, talk to us!" and I was wondering if the followers of this blog could sign it and spread the word because we need as many...
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(In case you forget, this was my last message I sent you: I’m sure I’m aromantic, but I don’t think I understand it enough at all so I’m confused. I’ve only ever ever felt lust and friendship for someone. I mean, romantic attraction is still just an ATTRACTION, right? So like, I watch romance movies and I wish I could have a romantic relationship with someone, and I...
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(TW: invalidation, sexism, ignorance, Fox News... →
nextstepcake:
It’s about what I would expect from then.
Added TW. They managed a lot for such a short clip.
I was just scrolling down from a post that made me smile and I don’t think I have ever felt a smile disappear so quickly when I read that.
If you are sensitive to this, I wouldn’t recommend watching, you guys, just whip out your bingo cards and black it out, basically.
Not...
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Global media coverage of Understanding Asexuality
ace-muslim:
With the publication of Anthony Bogaert’s Understanding Asexuality, asexuality is getting some media attention. The following articles have appeared on news websites around the world:
Asexuals: A growing population? (Medical Daily)
70 million in the world are asexuals (China Daily)
Not interested in sex? You are not alone (Deccan Chronicle)
One percent of the world’s people are...
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Anonymous asked: I consider myself ace since i'm not sexually attracted to anyone but (and this has been bothering me for a bit) I do get turned on by voices (particularly when singing). it's not directed towards the person with that voice, the sound is just really pleasing and arouses me. although, sometimes I wouldn't be bothered by doing sexual acts with the person who possesses that voice. am I...
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gaiabriggs asked: do you have that masterpost in a bigger format? I can barely read it, thanks
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List of Aromantic Resources
metapianycist:
Aromantic-spectrum & QP Resource Blogs on Tumblr
http://aromanticaardvark.tumblr.com/
http://aromanticadvice.tumblr.com/
http://aromanticsanonymous.tumblr.com/
http://arosecret.tumblr.com/
http://fictionalaros.tumblr.com/
http://lithromantic.tumblr.com/
http://fyeahqueerplatoniczucchinis.tumblr.com/
http://qpadvice.tumblr.com/
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genocidertogami asked: I don't know if I'm asexual because I have an attraction to fictional characters (though I've only ever wanted to have sex wih fictional characters, not real people), but I think.. I'm pretty sure the idea of minors having sex triggers me. I don't wanna slap "trigger" on just anything but.. it gives me a tightness in my throat, chest, and stomach, and it's...