March 2012
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I've decided to create a forum, all you have to do...
It’s already set to go, whenever or not people decide to use it is a different matter.
This is a place to chat amongst yourselves if you’re not interested in instant chat.
The forum is here http://beingaceisnormal.freeforums.org
Understanding Asexuality →
all-purpose-ace:
A recently published book on asexuality. It’s fairly expensive, so I’ll probably see if I can track down a library copy.
erindoesntbloghereanymore-deact asked: I feel kinda screwed. I classify as genderqueer and asexual but I don't really feel like anybody believes me or takes it seriously. My family seems to think I just need to find the right person. Before I settled on the term 'panromantic' on my attraction to people, my mum never believed it when I said I was attracted to both boys and girls (although leaning toward boys). What should...
matthew0440-deactivated20120403 asked: I would like to make a correction to my Asexual Spectrum post. Demisexuality is misdefined and should be "Demisexuality is experiencing sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional connection. Those who are asexual, but still find pleasure in pleasing their partner are often considered demisexual rather than just asexual." I apologize for the mistake; my wording was...
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Okay I feel like I need to clarify a post that was...
Demisexual is when you experience sexual attraction to someone after you have gotten to know them on a deep and emotional level. That’s it!
There’s nothing else to it. I apologise for the major confusion regarding a submission, it was entirely my fault for not properly re-checking the content that was given, perhaps the amount of work I have is affecting my ability to really check and...
Anonymous asked: I feel a lot like a sexual person, every single trait of a sexual person, I have it. I get horny, I have fantasies, I enjoy-some-porn (but not of people, and it's always illustrated) and the idea of masturbation isn't all too strange to me. BUT I can't look at someone, ANY person, whether I know them or not, and be willing to have sex with them. I honestly DO NOT EVER want to...
Anonymous asked: What they're saying about never thinking of anyone having sex; I think this is actually very common for those who are both asexual and sexual. It's not even related to antisexual.
turntechgumshoe asked: The person from that other ask isn't alone. I do the same things. In my mind everyone is like me and never has sex and is a virgin and never feels the need for sex. I always feel shocked when I find out otherwise, even though logically I know I shouldn't. It's just a strange mental thing I thought only I had.
ellietheasexylibrarian asked: ok i have just learned the term antisexual and though i don't think that it fits me i'm not sure what you would call it. i don't think that people shouldn't have sex, it's just that, in my head, people don't. i work in a porn store and am constantly surrounded by sex but, for some reason, in my world, people aren't actually having it. does this sound weird?
FACT: if you give an asexual an ugly sweater, they...
factsaboutqueers:
This liquid, if captured and distilled correctly, will either turn into the most delicious alcohol in the world or transmit Sherlock Holmes movies directly into one’s head.
Anonymous asked: I am trans but not asexual, but on the bottom surgery stuff I'm not quite sure what I want. I hardly get bottom dysphoria, but when I do it's REALLY bad.
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hollydermovoi asked: Hi, I help run asexy queries, and they asked us to make a post on sensual attractions and other attractions beside sexual, romantic, physical and aesthetic, and I know about some, but not all, so I decided to ask you for some input, if you don't mind
caffeinatedartist asked: Tinychat? :D
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iheldtegenstemmer asked: I think most of the people that come here are genophovic and stuff, because they feel more excluded than someone who simply lacks the sexual attraction to anything. In the long run, I think most asexuals don't know that they are asexual. They have their preferences and just chalk that up to what their sexuality is and roll with it. Asexuality isn't a well-known thing and it takes a...
Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm not actually ace at all (don't shoot me for being here) but a friend just brought up this tumblr. We've been chatting about the social expectations given in "high power" professions in terms of attire and gender, and what we reckon is a bit of a discrepancy when it comes to how casual is too casual. Just thought we'd chuck it out here for discussion in terms...
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Anonymous asked: What if I don't experience physical sexual attraction, but I can picture myself having sex with an attractive man and enjoying it just for the intimacy/fun/giving him satisfaction aspect? Am I considered asexual if the only thing missing is a libido?
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Anonymous asked: I was the anon asking about having physical reactions to sex-related things and sometimes random people, and you answered it withsaying its normal.On AVEN it says that having even physical reactions to people means that you are not asexual, so does this mean although I find the idea of having sex wrong/gross to me, I'm not asexual? Because of all this pressure to finally identify as...
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Anonymous asked: I may be wrong, but it seems a lot of people asking on here are more genophobic (and maybe a couple anitsexual) than asexual.
