February 2012
Anonymous asked: About the post on musicsexuality, I think it's highly possible. I experience something like that towards music as well; but, to me, the feeling is very much stronger towards excellent food. When I have some exquisite flavors swirling in my mouth, I get what I call foodgasms. I identify as demisexual, and I swear the sexual energy I get from food sometimes outweighs what I get from my S.O. So...
heliotitans said: Start talking about “lack of sexual desire” ‘cuz born that way, & end up talking about ppl who become asexual ‘cuz of traumas, or partners who can’t satisfy their needs. It’s in spanish, from latin america. It’s kind of “sad”. They missed the point.
Oh really? Damn I was hoping they would have a fresh and educated perspective, and being a predominately non-English...
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So I found a couple of videos on Asexuality, but...
http://video.latino.msn.com/watch/video/gente-asexual-1/z277ojx4
http://video.latino.msn.com/watch/video/gente-asexual-2/xoq2mnsi
If anyone can understand what they’re saying I’d love to hear it! :3
Anonymous asked: I think I might be demisexual, but I'm not actually really sure. I know for a fact I fall somewhere in the asexual spectrum, but when I try to imagine having sex, I /can/ imagine it, but it's always after I've gotten to know the person and know them well. But I still make jokes about wanting to have sex with people (well, I know they're jokes. Other people don't really...
“I don’t want to screw you. I just love you. When did who you want to screw...”
– Will Grayson, Will Grayson by John Green and David Levithan (via perpetuallybroken)
Hey sorry everyone, I have a lot of questions piled up and I’m feeling very tired and out of it right now due to the amount of workload I have. So If I’ve been giving horrible or incorrect answers I apologise sincerely! Perhaps I’ll answer the rest of the questions when I get enough sleep, or Griff may answer them instead.
-Nick
Anonymous asked: Is being aromantic different from simply not wanting to be in a relationship?
misbehavingvigilante asked: I got to say this blog is really helpful, I'm not asexual, I'm dating someone who identifies as panromantic asexual, who some of the terms she throws my way sometimes just goes over my head. It's nice to finally have some answers about the things she was saying that I didn't understand at the time, and then actually understand asexuality a little more than just the broad...
Ace mini-tutorial
aceupyoursleeve:
Someone asked “Where can one acquire the Ace of Spades asexuality cards that say “Some People Are Asexual?” and to this I reply: you could make them. That’s what I did. Mini-tutorial below the cut.
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Anonymous asked: So, I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask exactly, but it seems to fit, in that I'm a-something. I like sex; I like sex a lot. It's awesome and it makes me feel great about myself and everything around me. The thing is, though, I don't feel any need or want to form a romantic connection with anyone. I'm satisfied with my friends and family. I'd say I am...
Anonymous asked: Hi, a few years ago I went through a depression and since then I stopped being interested in boys/sex, never saw it as a problem till a few months ago, I fell in love with someone but not because of sexual attraction, and since then I think I won't really like anybody else, if I'm not with him I'd rather be alone, that made me think I was maybe bisexual, but I don't think so,...
Anonymous asked: Hello!! :) This is gonna sound really weird to you, but do you think "Musicsexuality" exist? I mean I have really good feelings with it and I even can have "musicgasms", music just makes me so happy and it's always there for you in the good and bad moments :) I'm ace but... could I consider myself musicsexual? Even if it was just a nonsense question, I hope we all can...
Asexuality FAQ
skyremains:
Anonymous asked: hi, i don’t know a lot about asexuality and i’m wondering: does asexual never feel the need to have sex? or they do but only when they’re very close to someone? or idk, in another circumstances? i hope i don’t sound rude or anything, i’m just curious and want to understand better.. :/
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Hello! It’s ok to be curious. It’s not a sexuality that’s talked about...
People Who Choose Not to Have Intercourse Because... →
ace-reporter:
Greg from the Dapper Ace talks about erasure of Asexuals with conditions that prevent them from having sex.
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Asexual PoC
A new tumblr blog has been created specifically for those who’re PoC and asexual. I would highly recommend following it even if you’re not a PoC but only to observe and learn, rather than contribute.
http://asexualpocsunite.tumblr.com/
PoC = People of colour.
No offense to the community, but can we stop with...
Pansexual, genderqueer and queer is so much easier to say, so no offence to you, but no.
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ihavenoidea28 asked: I'm an ace, in a relationship (not aromantic). The problem is, I didn't realize I was ace UNTIL a few months in. Long story short, after coming out to her, she took it as "Oh you don't love me". I tried to explain it just meant "I'M NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU" not, "I don't love you" or anything like that. Problem is, she treats me...
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Anonymous asked: I'm asexual- and aromantic as far...
bollocks-raptor:
asexualeducation:
I’m not sure ignoring them is really going to work in the long run, especially since she’s in one with your sibling. That doesn’t get rid of the problem in the first place. It also seems the problem is more than her being in a relationship, it’s her disrespecting you and treating you differently. If you feel that you’re more comfortable ignoring them, though,...
