December 2011
"That's your choice."
cleatora:
No, mom. This is not my choice. Do you think I choose to be asexual? Sometimes, it would be nice to feel sexual attraction towards another person. But I don’t. And that’s not a choice.
I know they try, but damn! My family is really ignorant. I love them, but they just can’t wrap their head around this concept. Like, is it really so hard to do even a LITTLE research before you start...
Anonymous asked: A little over a year ago, I ended up with a nasty infection in one of my fallopian tubes. The doctors assumed it was from unsafe sex. I explained that I was a virgin, and they treated me like a liar. It wasn't until they went to perform the surgery that they saw that I was telling the truth (I never got an apology). The gynecologist kept telling me to see her when I was ready for sex, and...
Ace Predictions for 2012 →
Good ace articles?
anthean:
Hello to my ace followers (and anyone else who might run across this post)!
A friend of mine is interested in reading more about asexuality/demisexuality/grey-asexuality, and asked me to send him my favorite articles, blogs, etc. While I have quite a lot of links saved up, I’ve been less active in the ace community lately, so I don’t really know what’s been discussed recently and where...
Anonymous asked: I was hoping to get an opinion on this... I've recently come to terms with my asexuality. I've also recently come to the full realization that I really hate being called a "woman." I'm not a man, and I refer to myself as female, but I don't like other people explicitly calling me a woman (and I never have). I've always acted more masculine, but never mentally...
Fact:
toneyspeaksloud:
All asexuals are incapable of emitting sexual pheremones. This genetic trait has instead been swapped with a more shocking abnormality. When you rub an asexual’s tummy, their glads begin to secrete a much different chemical, one that smells very similar to their favourite flavour of cake.
Some asexuals, who thoroughly enjoy many different kinds of cake, smell differently at...
FACT: Asexuals have developed the ability to speak...
Can I just be ASEXUAL now?
rachelrhoades:
i need to brain wash myself that no one will ever love me. Boys are just full of disappointments.
I’m beginning to suspect people are in this for the free cake! >:[
Anonymous asked: I don't get the whole "cake" thing...
Asexual Tragic Romance (?)...
telluriantribble:
wants to bake a cake
braves outside to buy ingredients
get home and realize you completely forgot about one essential ingredient
Cake, we shall be together one day…
List of awesome ace-tastic tumblrs
dandelionroots:
These are just the ones I follow, and if anyone has suggestions, please add to the list!
cakeyeahasexuals
demisexuality
aceadmiral
writingfromfactorx
asexyquotes
acewatch
fuckyeahaces
I’m sure there’s more, I just have kinda been off the tumblr ace community radar recently, so add to the list?
patronsaintofwolves asked: I'm a Black Ace woman here so I guess I'm an Ace of Spades. XD
ace-of-heart asked: PoC stands for. . .?
1 tag
So, just curiously, how many Asexual PoC are out...
Just think it would be wonderful for asexual PoC to get some recognition and shout out their thoughts if they want to! :)
FACT: The mating ritual for asexual aromantics is...
I am disgusted by the attitudes of people, who...
Preach it!
FACT: Asexuals can sniff out and track all cake in...
factsaboutqueers:
However, demisexuals and grey-asexuals can only sniff out cake in a 15-mile radius.
martincrieff:
‘You’re asexual you don’t want a boyfriend.’ You arrogant little shit. Just because I’m asexual doesn’t mean that I can’t love people.
Fictional Aromantics Blog! →
aromanticaardvark:
Please go there, follow and submit, they need help starting out.
Problems with sex drive/sexual frustration
gay-for-nygard:
Hi, this is pretty TMI but I’m stuck for ideas.
Basically recently I have been getting a high sex drive, but for various reasons I am unable to have sex with my boyfriend or masturbate. These are out of the question; I don’t feel comfortable doing either. It’s pretty bad- I’ve been wanting to self harm over it, and it’s been triggering depression. My questions are
Are there...
3 tags
asexuality101:
FACT: All Asexuals worship the greek goddess...
Asexyderp.tumblr.com →
asexyhipster:
I’ve started a personal tumblr full of my art, ramblings, tinychat stuff, and things I find funny. I figured I might as well make one to help keep asexyhipster a bit more focused on hipster ace macros. Feel free to check it out. If you ask me a question there, I’ll draw a derpy sketch as a response. :)
http://asexyderp.tumblr.com/
“But for me sex never enters into it. I don’t understand sex. Not that I have...”
– Dexter (via tanafluk)
FACT: Asexuals are actually aliens in disguise....
Aromantics and Romantic Traditions?
aromanticaardvark:
Just a question to all of you, how do you feel about mostly romantic-exclusive traditions? For example, kissing under the mistletoe (since it is Christmas after all) or kissing at midnight on New Year’s. Do you take part in these traditions? Do these traditions annoy you or do you just not pay attention to them? Valentine’s Day is another, too.
I’m asking since I was thinking...
Did you know this about asexuality? →
beautifuljohn:
OVERVIEW
An asexual is someone who does not experience sexual attraction. Unlike celibacy, which people choose, asexuality is an intrinsic part of who we are. Asexuality does not make our lives any worse or any better, we just face a different set of challenges than most sexual people. There is considerable diversity among the asexual community; each asexual person experiences...
FACT: Asexual people have an inexplicable...
